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I know that it’s been a while since I’ve talked to you, but I’ve been really busy.  With that said I want to give you my blog readers something special when you order the Who is V?  2013 calendar.

I will enclose a hint to each one of you that will only be enclosed in your calendar.  All you have to do is enter in the comments when you order your calendar Toy Lady Blog and you will receive the hint.

No one will know what hint was received but the person who receives the calendar.  Also if you didn’t know there is no shipping and handling for the calendar.  That means you pay only $25.00 and get a chance to go to the AVN Adult Entertainment Expo January 2013 inLas Vegas.

The winner will receive 1 round trip airplane ticket toLas Vegasand a 3 day VIP pass to the Expo.  Plus the winner will receive some other perks once they arrive in Vegas.  The closer it gets to the end of the contest more things will be revealed.

Also the winner will get a phone call from me telling them that they have won.  What that means is that once you enter the contest you should pack your bags and be prepared to go to Las Vegas.  If you’ve never been than this will be a trip to remember if you are a seasoned visitor you will still be in for a treat.

Now go to http://datoylady.com and order your calendar.  It’s on the home page just look for the “Who is V? picture and click order now.

Luv ya

Ms. V

How do you handle your relationship when you and your mate have busy schedules and travel out of state and the country a lot?  When you have to travel sometimes weeks at time and be away from your mate you have to come up with create ways to keep the relationship alive and going.

Being the Da Toy Lady is no different than any other relationship.  Having a awray of toys available 24/7 doesn’t replace the feeling of having my other half with me.  That’s where the creativity comes to play. You have to get rid of your inhibitions and do what they say don’t do, surprise your mate with a picture message.  Now remember you’re taking a chance when you send the picture that they may be around others when they look at their phone and hope that they are not standing in a group of people.  This will surely get a response.

Now some suggestions are if you have a full length mirror in you’re room put a stool in front of the mirror sit on it pull out your favorite toy and take a picture with your phone showing how wet you are and waiting for your mate to get home.

If you’re a guy do what you know your mate like and send it in a picture message.  Believe me getting a picture of my man in a towel or fresh out the shower makes my day.

So next time you or your mate are on extended trips away from each other get creative and make their day.  Believe me you will be extremely happy when they get home.

I’ll play with you later.

Da Toy Lady

It’s amazing how when you start living your dream that you find out who really has your back.  I say this to call out the number of people who look you dead in your face tell you that they are happy for you when you don’t have shit than as soon as you start getting recognition and succeeding in your dream they turn into straight up haters.  Today I’m going to call out these people and put them into some categories that we all understand.

Family hater, this person is a family member who claims to be happy for your success, but when you are working on your dream they make comments to you like, if I were you I wouldn’t quit my day job.  You know you need to be grateful you got a job instead of working for yourself.  I love this comment “You know you’re not going to make no money doing that hell you better just worry about paying your bills”  These people I tune the fuck out and think really you need to get a fucking life and stay outta mine.

The friend hater, this person hates that you are actually brave enough to take a risk and live your dream.  They never have anything positive to say when you talk about what you are doing and worst off they are so fucking miserable that they have the nerve to say negative shit to you hoping you will be miserable with them.  I have an ex friend who did that to me.  Well if she doesn’t know she will when she sees this blog, but this person when I told her of my happiness for an upcoming project I’m doing went so far as to tell me that I was wasting my time and to just focus on keeping my job.  Really no one needs the negativity in there live there fore I no longer saying anything to this person good or bad.

The I don’t know you hater.  These are people who have met you, maybe have even done business with you, but other than that they really only know what they see on the social networks and hear from others.  They will contact you to say dumb shit like why are you doing this or that and not supporting me?  They want you to give them credit for not doing a damn thing, but all the while hating on your success regardless of how big or small.  These are the parasites I can’t stand they are what I call cyber stalkers.  They are always watching what you are doing and than make comments about what they don’t know.  I won’t call any names, but I have a few who are on the social networks and can tell you more about my day than I can.

To conclude to all the haters this is for you.  while you are spending your energy hating on others, you could be doing your own thing and being successful yourself.  Since you must hate keep that shit yourselves and leave the people you are hating on alone.  Believe me you won’t be missed or sought after.

Keep it real people

Da Toy Lady